“Yes, but what are YOU healing when you photograph others?”
That question stopped me in my tracks.
At that time, I was a photographer on a mission to help moms rediscover their beauty, but I hadn’t considered that I was healing myself in the process.
That’s when it all clicked. The passion driving me wasn’t just about the pictures helping them, it was about learning to love myself.
When I realized that, all the pieces started to come together.
I had spent 8 years in a toxic relationship. I had finally had the courage to end it, yet even a decade later, his voice still remained in my head.
I wasn’t good enough. I wasn’t pretty enough. I didn’t deserve to be loved. I was so unworthy.
I carried that voice through my every day. It made me miserable. I’d have dreams about him where I begged him to see that I was good enough.
I was really good at making others think I was confident, but it was all a front for my insecurity.
When I started working with women, I heard their stories of shattered confidence. I helped them see that they are beautiful in ways that they did not even recognize.
I realized that I was not alone.
I had not even realized it until I was asked that question. I was healing.
We all have a voice inside of us that haunts us, whether it is an ex, a classmate, a sibling, a parent, a best friend or even our own.
A year later I received an email from a client. “The world needs more Avengers of Sexiness. Thank you for being mine.”
The dreams about my ex have stopped. The last one I had, I told him I forgave him.
My confidence has returned.
My mission is to help you find your confidence again. The sexiest thing in the world is a confident woman.
You Are Enough. Let me show you why I know this is true.
Are you ready to be an Avenger of Sexiness yourself? Join us.